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I'll start with the tl;dr summary to make sure everyone sees it and then explain further: As of September 1, we will temporarily be forced to block access to Dreamwidth from all IP addresses that geolocate to Mississippi for legal reasons. This block will need to continue until we either win the legal case entirely, or the district court issues another injunction preventing Mississippi from enforcing their social media age verification and parental consent law against us.

Mississippi residents, we are so, so sorry. We really don't want to do this, but the legal fight we and Netchoice have been fighting for you had a temporary setback last week. We genuinely and honestly believe that we're going to win it in the end, but the Fifth Circuit appellate court said that the district judge was wrong to issue the preliminary injunction back in June that would have maintained the status quo and prevented the state from enforcing the law requiring any social media website (which is very broadly defined, and which we definitely qualify as) to deanonymize and age-verify all users and obtain parental permission from the parent of anyone under 18 who wants to open an account.

Netchoice took that appellate ruling up to the Supreme Court, who declined to overrule the Fifth Circuit with no explanation -- except for Justice Kavanaugh agreeing that we are likely to win the fight in the end, but saying that it's no big deal to let the state enforce the law in the meantime.

Needless to say, it's a big deal to let the state enforce the law in the meantime. The Mississippi law is a breathtaking state overreach: it forces us to verify the identity and age of every person who accesses Dreamwidth from the state of Mississippi and determine who's under the age of 18 by collecting identity documents, to save that highly personal and sensitive information, and then to obtain a permission slip from those users' parents to allow them to finish creating an account. It also forces us to change our moderation policies and stop anyone under 18 from accessing a wide variety of legal and beneficial speech because the state of Mississippi doesn't like it -- which, given the way Dreamwidth works, would mean blocking people from talking about those things at all. (And if you think you know exactly what kind of content the state of Mississippi doesn't like, you're absolutely right.)

Needless to say, we don't want to do that, either. Even if we wanted to, though, we can't: the resources it would take for us to build the systems that would let us do it are well beyond our capacity. You can read the sworn declaration I provided to the court for some examples of how unworkable these requirements are in practice. (That isn't even everything! The lawyers gave me a page limit!)

Unfortunately, the penalties for failing to comply with the Mississippi law are incredibly steep: fines of $10,000 per user from Mississippi who we don't have identity documents verifying age for, per incident -- which means every time someone from Mississippi loaded Dreamwidth, we'd potentially owe Mississippi $10,000. Even a single $10,000 fine would be rough for us, but the per-user, per-incident nature of the actual fine structure is an existential threat. And because we're part of the organization suing Mississippi over it, and were explicitly named in the now-overturned preliminary injunction, we think the risk of the state deciding to engage in retaliatory prosecution while the full legal challenge continues to work its way through the courts is a lot higher than we're comfortable with. Mississippi has been itching to issue those fines for a while, and while normally we wouldn't worry much because we're a small and obscure site, the fact that we've been yelling at them in court about the law being unconstitutional means the chance of them lumping us in with the big social media giants and trying to fine us is just too high for us to want to risk it. (The excellent lawyers we've been working with are Netchoice's lawyers, not ours!)

All of this means we've made the extremely painful decision that our only possible option for the time being is to block Mississippi IP addresses from accessing Dreamwidth, until we win the case. (And I repeat: I am absolutely incredibly confident we'll win the case. And apparently Justice Kavanaugh agrees!) I repeat: I am so, so sorry. This is the last thing we wanted to do, and I've been fighting my ass off for the last three years to prevent it. But, as everyone who follows the legal system knows, the Fifth Circuit is gonna do what it's gonna do, whether or not what they want to do has any relationship to the actual law.

We don't collect geolocation information ourselves, and we have no idea which of our users are residents of Mississippi. (We also don't want to know that, unless you choose to tell us.) Because of that, and because access to highly accurate geolocation databases is extremely expensive, our only option is to use our network provider's geolocation-based blocking to prevent connections from IP addresses they identify as being from Mississippi from even reaching Dreamwidth in the first place. I have no idea how accurate their geolocation is, and it's possible that some people not in Mississippi might also be affected by this block. (The inaccuracy of geolocation is only, like, the 27th most important reason on the list of "why this law is practically impossible for any site to comply with, much less a tiny site like us".)

If your IP address is identified as coming from Mississippi, beginning on September 1, you'll see a shorter, simpler version of this message and be unable to proceed to the site itself. If you would otherwise be affected, but you have a VPN or proxy service that masks your IP address and changes where your connection appears to come from, you won't get the block message, and you can keep using Dreamwidth the way you usually would.

On a completely unrelated note while I have you all here, have I mentioned lately that I really like ProtonVPN's service, privacy practices, and pricing? They also have a free tier available that, although limited to one device, has no ads or data caps and doesn't log your activity, unlike most of the free VPN services out there. VPNs are an excellent privacy and security tool that every user of the internet should be familiar with! We aren't affiliated with Proton and we don't get any kickbacks if you sign up with them, but I'm a satisfied customer and I wanted to take this chance to let you know that.

Again, we're so incredibly sorry to have to make this announcement, and I personally promise you that I will continue to fight this law, and all of the others like it that various states are passing, with every inch of the New Jersey-bred stubborn fightiness you've come to know and love over the last 16 years. The instant we think it's less legally risky for us to allow connections from Mississippi IP addresses, we'll undo the block and let you know.

Very quiet day

Aug. 25th, 2025 10:05 pm
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I slept quite late, then had breakfast and coffee. I puttered online for awhile, and eventually took a shower and washed my hair. A hot shower, happily.

Got dressed in sweat pants and then took out the cardboard recycling.

Then, since the last computer I ordered was canceled, I ordered a new one from Best Buy and put it on the Best Buy credit card. Not sure when it'll be here though.

I went to the bedroom and dozed and played solitaire, until 6:00ish. Came out and texted the Kid, because it was her first day of work at her new job. She said it was good.

[personal profile] mashfanficchick called me and asked if I wanted to go halves on book stamps for the kids books, I said yes. Ze told me they both had good first days at school today.

I Teamed the FWiB early and we talked nearly an hour and a half. His cough is still bad, but somewhat better.

After that I had dinner, and went to the bedroom to lay down. I played solitaire some more, and finished reading the Janet Evanovitch romance Hero at Large. It's the first book she published, and wasn't originally published under that name, but it was her style and everything.

Then it was pet feeding time and here I am.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. The Kid.

3. [personal profile] mashfanficchick

4. Fun books.

5. New computer ordered.

6. My cold continues to improve.

Starsky and Hutch writing

Aug. 24th, 2025 09:53 pm
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Slept late again, got up, had breakfast and coffee, and then went to the Starsky and Hutch Creative Work session. We had some nice chat, and I got some writing done, so both things are good.

We ended the session around 6:00, and I called the Kid, and we talked a bit. She and her boyfriend had a good time upstate and she is preparing to start her job tomorrow.

Then I puttered online til it was 7:00 and then I Teamed the FWiB. Unfortunately his cough is so bad that we couldn't really talk long, only about 45 minutes.

After that I went to the bedroom and played solitaire until it was time to call Middle Brother. He hasn't done anything, but he wanted me to know that the cable box in the living room of his group home is broken but they are going to fix it.

After that I puttered on the phone for a bit and then came out and had dinner. And now it is pet feeding time, so excuse me while I do that.

OK, back, the pets are fed. That's about all today, except [personal profile] mashfanficchick and Theo made it safely to Ohio on their plane. And, most importantly. I have hot water again!

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. The Kid is home safely.

3. [personal profile] mashfanficchick is in Ohio safely.

4. The Starsky and Hutch fandom.

5. My cold is better.

6. The hot water is back!!!

My introduction

Aug. 24th, 2025 01:49 pm
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Hi all, I’ve had this blog for a fairly short time, though here of late I’ve been writing in it a lot more. I created this DW only intending to write about music-related things. However, I’ve realized that I love writing about any sort of media that impacts me. I’ve also written some things about living with disabilities here too, and will probably continue doing so. I’ve also written about my healing journey as it relates to healing from horrific childhood abuse/assorted big T and little T traumas. I love all kinds of music from EDM (Electronic Dance Music) to R&B, to latin pop, to rock n roll and rap. I am a feminist, as well as a non-conformist by nature. I’m proudly a member of the LGBTQ+ community. I suppose that’s a good enough introduction for now :)
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Name: Hi, I'm Nicole (she/her).

Age: early 40s



I mostly post about: As my journal title says, "to spit out all the butt-ends of my days and ways," (from T.S. Eliot's The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock, one of my favorite poems). I've been keeping a fairly regular chronicle of my life since the early days of the internet. I had paper journals before then, but then I found MyDearDiary, and Diaryland, and then . . . Livejournal. I was there for the latter's heyday and after; I only recently stopped cross-posting there about a year ago. So, not new to this journaling thing, although some of the more experimental ways I've written have fallen by the wayside in favor of a more regular narrative flow. So, yes, mostly daily life stuff, with a sprinkling of pictures and questionnaires here and there.



My hobbies are: Reading is my main one, although to me it's more like breathing than a hobby. I enjoy cooking and baking. I want to get back into writing, but general life and medical issues have kind of put a damper on this for now. I want to learn to use my camera better. I like video games, mainly of the platformer or puzzle variety; or something cozy (I'm really enjoying the Zero Escape games right now, and pondering purchasing Tiny Bookshop).



My fandoms are: I'm not really a fandom person. I like a lot of things, but I don't think they quite rise to the level of fandom.



I'm looking to meet people who: post about their daily lives, what they are thinking about, what they like to do in their free time. I'm not on much social media anymore, so this is it. And I always did prefer the longer types of posting, hearkening back to the "slower internet," if you will, where we didn't have to think in a pithy 140 characters or what-have-you.



My posting schedule tends to be: I was trying to stick to daily, but I don't always make it there. I do try to post at least once weekly.



When I add people, my dealbreakers are: The standard -isms and -phobias are not welcome; nor are folks who are pro-MAGA (and claim they're not -ist and -phobic). Yes, there are differences of opinion, but those are things like pizza toppings and which is the best ice cream flavor, not things that will get people killed.



Before adding me, you should know: I try to comment when possible, but I always read. Same goes for you; you don't have to comment on everything, but please feel free to say something if an entry speaks to you or you want to start a conversation. Once I add you, I have a longer introduction post behind a friends-lock if you want to know more about me - I know it's hard to jump in the middle of someone's life who's been at this for awhile :-)

Darwin Festival 2025

Aug. 24th, 2025 09:00 pm
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Darwin is not exactly known for being the cultural centre of Australia, but it does its best during its Festival and Fringe Festival. It's a particularly good time to visit in the dry season, where every day is 30 degrees, blue skies and a cool morning breeze, especially as a break from Melbourne's wintery touch (which I also love). The past several days have been in the fine company of Lara and Adam at MrBlueSky, where I also had the delight of catching up with Gary, Mon, Jac, and Shu on different occasions, and every evening there was an opportunity to soak up some fine entertainment.

A personal highlight was "John Schumann & The Vagabond Crew" performing the songs of Redgum. It's not my usual style of music, but they are the most notable radical Australian folk band that has ever walked in the country, and the musicianship was utterly superb. I felt like a teenager getting John to sign my copy of "If You Don't Fight You Lose", but I justified it on the grounds that I have been listening to this album since my teenage years; this will be a Rocknerd review. Another event also worthy of special note was "Duck Pond", a fusion of acrobatics, ballet, and theatre and a fusion story of Swan Lake and The Ugly Duckling. Understandably, I couldn't help but think of the RuneQuest scenario of the same name. Further, there is the excellent musicianship and storytelling of Fred Leone, whose self-taught upside-down southpaw guitar-playing is just a small testimony to his abilities.

Other events included a visit to the Northern Territory Art Gallery and Museum (MAGNT) which was hosting the National Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander Art Award (NATSIAA), the video artistry of Shundori", the impressive and moving Zhangke Jia film Caught by the Tides, and the impressive aerialist performance of "La Ronde". In contrast, I was less taken by Bangarra Dance Theatre's "Illume", mainly because it didn't provide what was said on the tin, or the Sydney alternative-improv "Party Dozen", although kudos to the young punk local support act "Tang" who had plenty of energy and style.

The time seemed to go quickly, and the view of the Darwin harbour from my co-owned apartment always gives the opportunity for reflection, consolidation of thoughts, and quiet strategic preparation for the future. It is, without a doubt, one of the finest places for a short visit, and I can certainly understand why some people feel the desire to move on a more permanent basis, although I am a long way from such considerations myself. I will, once again, take this opportunity to thank Lara and Adam for their absolutely superb hosting and care of this Southerner's visit and for showing me many highlights of their home town. Doubtless, I will return again soon.

Gulf Coast Cryptid Seeking Mutuals

Aug. 24th, 2025 03:04 am
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Me!

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  • Posts About: Plants, the weather, food, books, tv shows, movies, music, my health and my goals

  • Looking For: More active users (my reading page and my inbox are a bit dead atm). Artists, writers, crafters, foodies, nature lovers, y gente que habla Español


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Unexpected visit

Aug. 23rd, 2025 11:12 pm
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I got up at 9:00 for my Al=anon meeting. There was STILL NO HOT WATER!!! So I took another damn cold shower, after having breakfast and coffee. Then I dressed and took the 28 bus to the meeting.

It was a very good meeting, and larger than last week. Afterward I went to the diner, and got my usual, a bacon, egg, and cheese on a croissant and an iced coffee. And then I took the 13 and 12 buses home.

I got in, and had just signed in to Zoom at the Starsky and Hutch chat, when my phone rang. It was [personal profile] mashfanficchick wanting to know if I wanted to come over and play D&D with zer and Theo. Ze picked Theo up from his camp bus today, and tomorrow is flying back to Ohio with him, but today they had free time.

So I typed a message in the Zoom chat that I had meant to stay but something came up and I logged out and packed up my Players Handbook in a backpack and headed over.

Spoiler alert, no D&D actually got played, though I did make up what is the barebones of a character I might use.

But we hung out and Theo was cute. We had dinner from Dominos, I had the chicken Alfredo pasta. Then after that we wnt to a local park for a little bit. We discovered that the park has a Little Free Library, so we went through that.

I Teamed the FWiB from my phone, and then Theo declared he wanted to go back, so I Teamed and walked. Got to the apartment and stayed on for awhile.

Finally it was time to go home. The Uber was more expensive than usual, maybe because of the US Open this week? I don't know.

The Kid texted, she is home safely from upstate and all is well.

I fed the pets and started here. And that's all.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. The Kid home safe.

3. Had a chance to see [personal profile] mashfanficchick before ze left for Ohio.

4. Had a chance to see Theo.

5. My meetings and the people there.

6. Little Free libraries.

hey

Aug. 23rd, 2025 10:38 am
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Name: Sarah, but you can also call me Paperlady (or any nickname you like).
 
Age: 19 (turning 20 in November).
 
Location / Timezone: UTC+3.
 
I mostly post about:
Life updates, reflections, and general diary-type entries. I’m hoping to use Dreamwidth as a way to slow down, read more, and improve my writing through conversations and entries. Expect book notes, film thoughts, and sometimes just little pieces of my day. My posting schedule will probably be all over the place — sometimes a lot at once, sometimes nothing for a bit, and occasionally a steady routine when I get into a groove.
 
My hobbies are:
Baking, playing guitar, journaling, photography, sometimes art and editing. I love discovering new music and I get a little too invested in my playlists. I’m also trying to get deeper into reading and writing.
 
My fandoms / media loves are:
Coming-of-age stories, slow romances, and movies that ache in quiet ways (Before Sunrise, Only You, Romeo + Juliet 1996, etc.). Been getting into poetry (Rilke, Mary Oliver, Patti Smith) and a mix of alternative/indie music — Jeff Buckley, Radiohead, The Strokes, Smashing pumpkins, The Killers, etc.
 
I’m looking to meet people who:
Like exchanging thoughts and snippets of daily life, who enjoy books, films, and music, and who are here for conversation.
 
My posting schedule tends to be:
Erratic, distracted, then obsessed. Probably a couple times a week when I’m consistent.
 
Before adding me, you should know:
I deal with some anxiety when it comes to talking, but I’m hoping this space helps me through that. I don’t post anything graphic, though some of the media I love touches on heavier themes like heartbreak, mental health, or loss.
 
Dealbreakers:
I’m not interested in anyone who puts others down for who they are, cruelty, or being dismissive.

Feeling better

Aug. 22nd, 2025 10:40 pm
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I stopped taking the cold medicine today I've been taking, and I feel pretty good. I'm going to take a dose of the night time version just before bed though.

Anyway, I got up fairly late again. I forget what time. And I had breakfast and coffee. Then I puttered around for awhile but finally I watched Wednesday. I saw the episode that was the last one we watched upstate, and then I discovered that although the season isn't over yet, the last 4 episodes won't be available til September 3rd. Bummer. Can't wait.

So I went and puttered around some more, and then at 3:30 I took a shower. There is no hot water. I had to take a cold shower. I HATE COLD SHOWERS! Especially since I have a cold, I wanted a nice hot steamy one.

I survived. I Got dressed, and played solitaire until it was time to leave for my Al-anon meeting in the Bronx. Like last week I took the 23 to 31st St and the 50 from there which is ABSURD.

Anyway, I held myself to one slice of pizza and one doughnut at the meeting, so I feel good about that. The meeting was very good, we had two new people.

Came home, the FWiB was asleep in his chair. I woke him up by Teaming him and we talked for awhile. He went to the doctor today who gave him medicine for his cough. I hope it works.

Then I fed the pets, and started here, and that's about all.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. My meetings and the people there.

3. Good TV.

4. Heard from [personal profile] mashfanficchick that she is enjoying Rivers of London.

5. Nice weather.

6. Feeling better.

Still sick

Aug. 21st, 2025 10:12 pm
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But better. I slept very late indeed today, til after 1:00, then got up and had breakfast and coffee, and put in a Shipt order because I was out of milk.

Got a phone call from [personal profile] mashfanficchick while I was waiting, and we talked for awhile. After the order came, I put it away and started watching Wednesday.

I think I watched abut three episodes. It was a little after 6:00 when I stopped. I've gotten up to the episodes I watched with Linda and Sue and Alan upstate, so I'm almost caught up with myself. I am still enjoying it.

I Teamed the FWiB early tonight, around 6:30ish. We talked over an hour and a half and that was very nice.

After we finished I went to make dinner and then it was time to call Middle Brother. He is fine, nothing new. Going to McDonalds tomorrow.

I ate dinner and went to the bedroom. Last night I finished Hemlock and Silver, and I felt like reading more T Kingfisher, so I downloaded Bryony and Roses, which was only $4.99, and read that totally. I got to bed at 2:30 which may be part of why I slept so late today. But in any event, I spent the time after dinner till pet feeding time looking up books to see if I could list them on fantasticfiction.com. I was interested in downloading the T Kingfisher book The Seventh Bride but Barnes and Noble doesn't seem to have it for Nook.

Then it was pet feeding time and I fed the pets, and here I am.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Good books.

3. Good TV.

4. Friends.

5. My cold is better.

6. Able to stay in and get better.

hey yall.

Aug. 21st, 2025 07:58 pm
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Name: Jay
Age: 40

I mostly post about:
life. thoughts. pets.

My hobbies are:
video games. trivia nights. petting cats.

My fandoms are:
Loki. guardians of the galaxy. norse goddess Hel. neil gaiman. i just sorta realized i dont have many fandoms right now

I'm looking to meet people who:
post. are interested in the day to day ladida of life.

My posting schedule tends to be:
right now its new again, and id like to keep it pretty regular

When I add people, my dealbreakers are:
not much is a deal breaker. im not here to judge you.

Before adding me, you should know:
i enjoy all kinds of conversations and learning. as tyrion lannister says "I drink and I know things"

Not the smartest idea I ever had

Aug. 20th, 2025 10:29 pm
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I slept until about 11:30, then got up and had breakfast and coffee. I puttered around for awhile on the computer, and finally went into the bedroom and lay down. I dozed, or slept for a few hours, got up around 3:30 and decided what I had to do.

So I got dressed, and went out, in the rain, to pick up my prescription, and to go to Astoria to check on Carmina.

It wasn't raining very hard, and I wore my jacket and hat and used my umbrella, so no big problem, but still not a great idea with a heavy cold. I got to Duane Reade, got my prescription, and then took the 7 train to Queensboro Plaza and the N from there, and walked to the Kid's place.

Everything was fine of course, I gave Carmina some food just in case and scritched her. Izio the snake was fine, didn't need more water. I sent pictures of both of them to the Kid, and then headed home.

I stopped at a pizza place on her corner and had a slice and a diet Pepsi. Not the best pizza I ever had, but OK. Then I got on the N train and found out the whole line was delayed by a switch problem at Prince street. It was a long wait as they let us move one stop at a time, and wait at each stop, but finally I got to Queensboro Plaza and the 7.

After that it was fast enough getting home, and I arrived just in time to take my cold medicine, check out some stuff online, and then Team the FWiB.

D&D was on hiatus this week so we talked for about an hour and a half. Then I had dinner, and went to the bedroom where I played solitaire, and then finished reading the T. Kingfisher book, Hemlock and Silver.

Then I came out here and fed the pets, and started here. So that was the day.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Was able to get my prescription.

3. All well with Carmina.

4. My cold is better.

5. Good books.

6. It wasn't raining too hard.

Seeking New Friends

Aug. 20th, 2025 08:29 pm
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Name: Remy

Age: 41

I mostly post about: My personal life, mental health, game reviews, book reviews, movie reviews, and other stuff. I am also working on a furry fantasy novel that I hope to finish typing up one of these days--I already have it written out in seven or so notebooks.

My hobbies are: AI furry art, reading, writing, video games

My fandoms are: I was heavily into the furry fandom and AI furry art communities but had several falling outs with the former ages ago and the latter recently that led to me leaving social media, but I still enjoy doing them.

I'm looking to meet people who: Comfort me when I'm in need, make insightful commentary on my entries, appreciate my unique autistic perspective.

My posting schedule tends to be: At least once every few days.

When I add people, my dealbreakers are: I am very somewhat ideologically sensitive as politics has broken tons of my past friendships.

Before adding me, you should know: I am autistic and very PTSD, damaged from 18 years of psychiatric medications. Read my sticky post to learn more.

I have a cold

Aug. 19th, 2025 10:14 pm
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Started coming down with it yesterday, but I really wasn't sure til bedtime when it really bloomed. SO I rescheduled my doctor's appointment to next week. Then I had breakfast and coffee and went back to bed to read.

Last night I downloaded the new T. Kingfisher book, Hemlock and Silver, which I had preordered, and started that. It's pretty good as all her things are.

I put in a Shipt order too, to get cold medicine and some other stuff.

After about half the day I put the book down and dozed. Finally I came out to the living room and Teamed the FWiB, who's cold is better now. Then at 8:00 I had my Al-anon meeting by Zoom, which went pretty weell.

Then I had dinner, and then went back to the bedroom where I played solitaire and then dozed awhile. [personal profile] mashfanficchick called me, there is a new Starsky and Hutch paper zine coming out at SHarecon, and since ze is, sadly, not going, ze wants me to pick it up for zer.

Then it was pet feeding time so I did that, and now am doing this.

Tomorrow is when I'm supposed to go check on Carmina, but I don't know if I'll feel up to it. We'll see.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Shipt.

3. Cold medicine.

4. New zine coming!

5. My meetings and the people there.

6. Good books.

Shopping day

Aug. 18th, 2025 10:19 pm
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Actually started the day at 9:00 with breakfast and coffee, and then had to make a necessary phone call. Took care of that, and then showered and dressed, and lay down and played solitaire til 1:00 when I went to meet [personal profile] mashfanficchick.

We met at a different Starbucks than usual, I ordered a raspberry cold brew, which was, OK, but I don't think I'll get another.

We went to Bare Burger for lunch. My reading glasses broke when we were there, I guess that's what I get for going cheap.

After we ate, we went to Bath and Bodyworks, I looked and sniffed a lot of things but didn't buy anything. Then we went to the Verizon store for some help for zer, and then we went to Target.

In Target I found some reading glasses, there was a discrepancy between what the store display said the price was and the price marked on the glasses. They gave them to me for the lower price, fortunately.

Then we went to Trader Joes, but when we saw the length of the checkout line we left without getting anything.

[personal profile] mashfanficchick told me Larry was looking for someone to go to the ball game with him on the 30th when ze can't. So I texted him, said I would love to go and he sent me the ticket.

We took the bus back to zer apartment, with a stop at CVS, and hung out there. I Teamed the FWiB from my phone.

Finally ze was tired and wanted to go to bed early so I Ubered home. The Kid's keys arrived in the mail so I can go on Wednesday to check on Carmina.

And now I'm ready for bed. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow, hope it isn't raining.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Fun day out.

3. Larry and his baseball tickets.

4. New and better reading glasses.

5. The keys arrived safely.

6. Bed soon.

Food, Flies, and Fun

Aug. 18th, 2025 11:07 am
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They cut through the breach again. No holes from the seals. Michelle thinks they might be coming through the hole cuts in the pipes. That might be it. Taped it down.

EDIT: Two more flies today. Now I'm filling pipe gaps because that's the only option but it also made me realize there's a gap directly above the pipes and the sink stand. That just received a fill of sticky stuff. This might be it folks, this might be the end. I might be coping to hell.

I figure once the stuff solidifies, I can check for gaps and seam it with caulk for a cleaner finish. There's some small gaps I can also work on while there too that are too small for flies but probably large enough for silverfish.

So this weekend. )

Updated my portfolio after I realized so much of it was ancient work. There's some decent stuff in there.

Also surprisingly decent? The number of Statue of Liberty photos I am catching up to and finding. Found some stuff from a really rough trip that shook us from bad wakes but it was so close to the statue that it filled my frame with the min range of my telephoto.

Glad I'm finally catching up on some of my work. I also processed all the photos from that trip I hated in Lancaster, just waiting for Michelle to send those to her friends. I think she's going to hesitate on working on them though.

Anyway, that's it from me.


In the meantime keep calm and The Rat

Happy Birthday, Ratties!

Aug. 18th, 2025 07:52 pm
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A little less than a year ago, after receiving confirmation of a second parent when I'm travelling, I decided to reintroduce rats as "animales de companie" into my life after a hiatus of several years. Fortunately, The Happy Rattery (FB) had tracked their birthdays and, I am pleased to announce, brothers Mayday and Mayhem have celebrated their first birthday, which makes them about 30 in human years. As an example of nominative determinism, their assigned names proved to be prescient. Mayhem, the larger of the two and with an appropriate bandit mask, is gregarious and boisterous, whereas the smaller Mayday is a lot more circumspect and a little even nervous about the world. Typical of their behaviour, these little brothers have provided a great deal of joy to my life with their antics, especially their remarkable rat-engineering projects; I was very surprised when they tried to add a bag of pegs to their home construction.

Currently 3.7K kilometres away, I am very thankful to Kate R., for looking after the rats in my absence. Delightfully, she provided them a little bit of cupcake for their birthday, complete with a candle. Meanwhile, at the top-end, Lara D. has purchased some Banksy-rat decals for our apartment, MrBlueSky, which we installed this evening in honour of Mayday and Mayhem. Further, because it must be mentioned, a few days ago the Australian water rat, the Rakali (Hydromys chrysogaster) won the ABC award for Australia's under-rated animal as part of National Science Week (I give honourable mention to the marsupial mole). Common in Melbourne's waterway, I derive a great deal of delight watching rakali, especially as they swim at speed, their white-tipped tail hoisted like a flag.

My advocacy for rats can now be measured in decades, and I like to think this has had some effect on their reputation and welfare. There is an excellent essay from Aeon ("Rats are Us") which highly the juxtaposition between the rat and animal welfare laws (essentially non-existent in the United States, it can be harrowing reading) and the scientific evidence that I have raised many times over the decades; they are social animals with communication, they are capable of past memories and future prediction, they are dreamers, they have a highly developed sense of empathy (even for strangers), they love to play, they like to learn (even driving rat-sized cars). With their sentience ("sentus", to feel) certain, and their sapience ("to know") evident, what of their consciousness ("shared knowledge")? The rat is us.

Watching Wednesday

Aug. 17th, 2025 10:19 pm
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Got up around 11:00 I think and had breakfast and coffee. Then I watched the rest of season 1 of Wednesday.

I like it a lot. I look forward to watching season 2 at some point in the future. Maybe this week, maybe next.

By happy coincidence, just when I finished the last episode of the season, [personal profile] mashfanficchick called me and we talked a bit about tomorrow.

After that I went into the bedroom and lay down. Meant to start reading Agatha Christie's Death on the Nile, but got distracted by playing solitaire and scrolling Facebook.

Finally at 6:30 I came out and puttered online until I Teamed the FWiB at 7:00. We talked til 8:30. His cold seems a little better, hard to say.

At 8:30 of course I called Middle Brother. Nothing going on there.

The Kid started Facebook messaging me from the cottage, on the Green Imp chat she set up, and we, and Laurie and Denise discussed stuff.

Finally at 10:00 it was pet feeding time so I did that. And here i am.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. The Kid.

3. Good TV.

4. The cottage.

5. Plans for tomorrow.

6. Staying inside out of the rain.

Over slept

Aug. 16th, 2025 11:00 pm
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Overslept this morning, was supposed to get up at 9:00 but didn't til almost 10:00. Then I rushed to get ready, breakfast, coffee, shower dress, and get to my Al-anon meeting. Amazingly, I was only a little bit late.

The meeting was very good, and people were happy to see me back. I went to the diner afterward, and had a bacon, egg, and cheese on a croissant, and an iced coffee. Then I took the 13 and the 12 back, which means I had to get off at Parsons Blvd again and walk past Oldest Brother's old nursing home. Makes me sad.

Got home and went to the Starsky and Hutch chat, which was on finding fanfiction today. We chatted until just about 7:00 exactly. I ordered a Starsky and Hutch/Husky and Starch tee shirt, which I couldn't really afford now but I wanted one. Then I Teamed the FWiB, who is still pretty sick with his cough and cold.

We talked til somewhat after 8:00, when he got off to wait for a call from his brother. I puttered online for a bit, then went to the bedroom to lie down.

Around 8:30 the Kid called me, they got in to the cottage safely, and she is, unsurprisingly, angry at various things. She needs to relax a bit.

Anyway, I called [personal profile] mashfanficchick and talked with zer for quite awhile. Then I got up and fed the pets, and started here.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. The Kid arrived safely.

3. My meetings and the people there.

4. [personal profile] mashfanficchick

5. The Starsky and Hutch fandom,

6. Lovely weather.
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